No One Dies from Divorce

Michael Wise: Reconciling Religion, Fear, and Divorce

April 04, 2022 Jill Coil
No One Dies from Divorce
Michael Wise: Reconciling Religion, Fear, and Divorce
Show Notes

 [TRIGGER WARNING: Mentions of self harm and suicide.] If you or a loved one need support, call the 24/7 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255).

 This week I’m joined by my friend and paralegal, Michael Wise, who shares his raw and real story of divorce, and how he worked through fear, guilt, and shame to reclaim his life. It may not kill you, but in the thick of it, divorce can certainly test your will to live.  Find out the tools, keys, and things you need to do to protect yourself to find that peace of mind and ensure you come out better, stronger, and happier in the end. 

Michael began his legal career in 1994 near Los Angeles, California when he was asked to help an attorney move storage boxes the week before the Northridge earthquake. From picking up scattered papers and learning how to put files back together after the earthquake to answering phones, typing, learning to take dictation, drafting pleadings and declarations, understanding legal concepts, and meeting with clients, Michael was able to gain experience in all levels and aspects of legal assistance. He was certified as a paralegal in 1998 with a specialty in civil litigation.  

After a break from his legal career to work at the headquarters of his church (which is what brought him from California to Salt Lake City) and a too-short time as a businessman with his own retail store, he has been able to spend the past ten years working with some of the most respected attorneys in Utah’s legal community. He realizes that the community is a small one and he maintains and enjoys good working relationships with opposing staff and attorneys as well as court clerks, interpreters, court reporters, and experts in various fields. He was once honored by a nomination to the Utah State Bar as Paralegal of the Year.  

Michael is married with 4 children and a grandson, and lives in Pleasant Grove with a dachshund and a chihuahua. He speaks fluent Spanish and has professional experience as a translator and interpreter.